Hello! Everyone, I'm Quinn like your care. It's another great weekend passed by. We all need to face the fact that life is still going and all of us need to go back online and either write or read for another reflection! That's somehow upsetting but helpful, isn't it? It's just learning, or schooling, right? Leave your comment below about "your" opinions.
First of all, as always, THE PLOT!(Spoil Alert). In the cassette B, Hannah mentioned two name. Jessica and Tyler! (you can see the photo above, Jessica is in the middle of the first line in and Tyler is the first one from right of the second line) They both have done something bad to Hannah. Jessica, because of the list made by Alex, she attacked Hannah and left her permanent scars. Tyler, he followed Hannah to her home and took several photo of her in her own room, which terrified her a lot that she wouldn't leave the window opened ever again.
I can definitely relate the feeling of desperation when everything and everyone is against you. Sort of experience is really depressing and uneasy. It can surely destroy you as a person when you're still a teenager. It's no longer just about how slightly or seriously those things they did. But how did the person been treated like this feel about it.
"So how important is your security, Tyler? What about your privacy? Maybe it's not as important to you as it was for me, but that's not for you to decide." No one can ever image or experience any feelings from other people. We can be crazy, nervous, happy or vulnerable at any moment, you never know. If you just do things to other based on your own perception and assumption. That's just not fair to anyone, let alone any kind of bully. Just like Hannah said:" That's not for you to decide." You would never decide what we feel about anything and you can't. It's just not fun leaving other desperate and hurt for the things you did to them.
You must have heard a line like:"It's not a big deal" said by other or even yourself. NGL, I, myself have. You can surely say it jokingly, however, sometimes it's just hurtful for someone who really thinks it's a very "big deal". That's more about respect, understanding and compassion, not a concept conflict about how do you think. It's what we all did wrong when we were still a kid, as a teenage issue.
Lastly, I know it's not just for teenager but everyone in any age. We all need to learn that we do ignore other's feelings and emotion more than just several times, and we fail to understand people because our individual differences. Even though we all try to be good, but we usually go the opposite. Hopefully, after reading my sharing, you all can be more aware of other's expression about their thoughts than yours.
And here is the question for today! Have you do something that you think it's okay but other don't? What you feel about it? Okay, that's the wrap-up! Bbye and see you after next weekend!
Hi, Quinn, I do care everyone in this class, as well as your reflection! Writing a reflection upsets you? I am so sorry! However, from my years of experience, no reflections, no reading, and reading is the core of learning, especially in learning writing. While I am struggling about whether there is too much for you to do for this class, some of the essay drafts confirm that "YOU NEED IT!" HA! Anyway, your reminder of us being unaware of how others react to what we say and do is important. Choosing to ignore others' feeling is even worse. Think about this: you wouldn't have any chance to show your ability to think sophisticatedly and express it freely. Ideas come and go quickly without noting them down.
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