The book tells the story of a little girl's
growth, which shaves his heart. At first, he was looking forward to his family
and wanted to warm up the love of his family, but not everyone in the family
could take their children for granted. Maybe sometimes that's the way it is,
the more a person expects what he gets, the less he gets. Previous women had no
place in economic or social status and had to rely on men. Jane Eyre was born
poor and had to rely on her aunt, but at home he was not taken seriously and
was often bullied. He couldn't get the love he deserved at home, which in turn
allowed him to develop an independent personality. The headmaster of their
school is also a mean figure, his heart is very biased, at the beginning he
completely ignored her opinion, subjectively think that she is a bad child who
loves to lie. Her childhood was miserable, and she didn't get any care or how
to get along with anyone else compared to other people's. But then everything
got better, but it was when she grew up. I thought I had a friend who was the
eldest daughter of their family. The eldest daughter is a role for her parents
to take care of others. Her parents didn't give her any care when she was
growing up, and she was often harshly criticized. Her parents thought it was
necessary for her to take care of her younger siblings, so they put a lot of
pressure on her. She was often overwhelmed by stress and sometimes didn't know
how to vent her emotions, so she suffered from depression. Her parents didn't
think these things would make up her depression, but rather that she had a
problem. It was very unscented, and in the end she became more and more ill and
then tried to kill herself. Her parents have faced up to the problem since they
committed suicide. But it was too late, and she was reluctant to open her
atrium to her parents, and then she left home to study elsewhere. Maybe some
people will say why she didn't resist. But in that case, she couldn't resist.
Hope that no matter what kind of parents can try to understand the child's
mood, not necessarily how they feel is how, sometimes she has her own reasons
or reasons, if only an ambiguous crackdown on her, then she can never be
understood. If there is time to have the opportunity parents must accompany their
children more, do not let them live in an unhappy place. For children, they
can't understand the adult's position, so in this case, parents can only pay
more attention to their children and not let them have ideas that are ignored.
This is a very difficult subject, but it is also an important issue, if they do
not take good care of them, then they are easy to go. Although my friend's
final result was bad, I also knew the importance of many things through her.
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