Last time Will’s friends visited him, he was upset
about his physical problems and became so grumpy that he swept some photos on the
cabinet. Louisa can’t endure his bad temper anymore so she blurted out the true
thoughts in her mind. She would work here is all because of money. Will realized
that the girl who always smiles in front of him has a heavy burden of money
which Will could never image, as Louisa could never know how suffering Will is.
Since that, Will started to bare his soul and these two started to know each other
better.
Being hard to open hearts to others is not an illness. Some people consider it as a self-defense. The main reason that causes the situation is the environment you are in. Everyone has their own personality, even though some people act optimistic to others still have some depress sides in their hearts. There are many invisible burdens in daily life that might make people become depressed and don’t want to interact with others. The more you feel depressed, the more you need someone to listen to you. Talking to others about your depression is the best and fast way to deal with the sorrow.
Hi Nature!
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, thank you for mentioning the fact that being hard to open hearts to others is not an illness. Because I was that person who was reluctant to talk to others about my thoughts. I didn't have many friends in my childhood, and I rarely talked my thoughts with my family. Therefore, I kept my thought in my heart, not letting them come out from my mouth. And as you said, keeping those thoughts in my heart has caused me a greater burden, and it also makes me tend to be depressed sometimes. However, actually I was gradually get used to this kind of me. Sometimes I didn't even want others to understand me, and I would habitually assume those pressure by my own when facing with problems. Moreover, I must say I’m not totally agree with this “The more you feel depressed, the more you need someone to listen to you.” For me, sometimes the concern of friends and family can actually pose a pressure on me. I’m more willing to get the positive encouragement, rather than this kind of negative concern. It’s probably simply because I don’t want others share my negativities; but your point is right, just depends on what kind of person and faced with what kind of problems.
I think the mental wounds are must difficult to recover. That is also hard to tell other people. After all, people are all selfish. They have no interest on other one instead of the real friends. However, real friends are hard to find. I think the only thing we can do is to treat your friends more friendly and kind, maybe they will become your real friends. Also, if you do have one, please cherish them. I remind myself as well after read your log4. Thank you for your sharing.
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